I should’ve known better. Today was Colin’s day off, and I suggested we take a family trip to the mall. I rarely go alone to the mall nowadays, since Will (unless under the influence of Baskin Robbins ice cream or while “riding” the 50 cent kiddie vehicles) screams most of the time. Not pleasant. I’m accustomed to it, but other shoppers aren’t so thrilled by my child’s wailing. They smile and think he’s oh so cute--until he throws a fit, of course. I’ve been dying to try on clothes for myself, but Will either shrieks in the dressing room or escapes from it. Not fun to chase after a strong-willed faaast crawler while halfway clothed. So I was hoping today might be a good time to attack this task, as Colin could watch after Will.
The mall was absolutely packed, and as I’ve gotten older, I’ve grown to detest crowded shopping arenas. It makes me claustrophobic. Also, I couldn’t bear to leave Colin with our antsy child for long periods of time on his one day off. My poor husband has been working like a dog these past few weeks, and I already had torn him away from good football-watching. So, the shopping portion of it was a bit of a bust.
It was fun though—we stopped off at the kids’ play area and let Will enjoy himself for awhile, and it was also entertaining to watch him play with the stuffed animals at Nordstrom. Unfortunately, he took a liking to a pink toy poodle—not the manliest of creatures—and it wasn’t easy for him to part with it. We even attempted to dine out, and this is where I really should’ve known better. I think Colin and I devoured our food at Rockfish Grill (yummy!) in 5 minutes flat, since Will decided he’d had enough of our fun family outing. Let’s just say I better clean my contact lenses out really well tonight, since I’ve got mixed veggies in my left eye at the moment. I do miss leisurely meals…
Now it’s 7 pm, and we’re ready for bed. Another call day for Colin tomorrow and another day of who-knows-what for Will and me. It’s always a surprise :) I though my prior job as a high-school teacher was unpredictable and dynamic, but being a mom is so much more so! Each day, I wake up without a clue if Will is to take a decent nap, eat something other than yogurt and cheerios, scream or be perfectly cheery, want to cuddle and read all day or autonomously push his car down the street. I am thankful for every day I get to hang out with my baby (nearly a toddler!), but I must admit, those “easier” days are nice. I heard somewhere recently that truly parents aren’t “raising” kids; it’s the kid who “raises” the parent. On those not-so-easy days, I can see that. How ironic that God uses these teeny little people to mature and grow up the big people in their lives.
Question: Any advice on babies that still insist on eating baby food? Other than little pieces of fruit & crackers/cheerios/goldfish, Will won’t eat “real people food” that isn’t smooth in texture…It’s like he knows the difference between carrots that I cooked and pureed and the ones in the little Gerber tub. I’ll be sending him to college with his pureed squash in plastic containers.